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The return of the Marmite men Pt 2

So as expected Marmite Men pt 1 (see below) sparked some controversy. Women have called, women have written, many have commented. If I'm honest I knew it would happen. It was always likely.

Having read this comment I began thinking about a past article I had written, "Beware of faces". In that I mused that people had a tendency to only present to you what they wanted you to actually see. So in this situation, Katie's sisters boyfriend may well present a picture of love and consideration to Katie's sister, which is probably why Katie herself struggles to see it.

I had another email from Lucy* in Canada, who said "Marmite men do exist, but at the end of the day this is just a case of each to their own. What floats your boat may not float mine and vice-versa."

Catherine* also said, "What makes it brilliant is that it makes us all a little hopeful. Because not everyone will like the same person it just means that we will all be able to find someone who is appropriate for us. Marmite men rock because it just means that physically, emotionally or intellectually there is someone just for us!"

Such vastly different opinions, but all so true. So whether you love it or hate it, it seems Marmite men are here to stay... for a while.

Friday, 05th November 2010

The Return of the Marmite Men- Pt 1.

Many remember it from their childhoods.

The brown viscous substance which when produced from a lunchbox smeared in a sandwich could manage to polarise reactions to drastic proportions. Many would cower and grimace, fake nausea at the thought of it, few would claim that they loved it, revelling in the shock and awe of those who showed distaste.

Marmite. You'll either love it or hate it. The brand positioning of the yeast based sandwich filling which for years either delighted or distressed those who came across it.

So who are the marmite men and how are they making such a resurgence? They are the men whom you love to hate. The ones who make you call into question the sanity of anyone who claims to like them much less love them. 

We all know Marmite men, and for those of you who may struggle to think of an example of one allow me to garnish your mind with some celebrity examples. Think Hugh Hefner. Think Pete Doherty. Simon Cowell (also known as SiCo... reminiscent of psycho perhaps). Anyway, these are the men women love to loathe. 

They are either loathsome womanisers, narcissists, or egotists, and have a large following of people who dislike them, but, somehow manage to also maintain a following of individuals who appear loyal to them. Now, in terms of the celebrities, it is often assumed that it is the money and fame which keeps them surrounded with friends and loved ones.

But, what about us regular folks, how do we explain the appeal and resurgence of the Marmite men? Ladies this is a plea.. one for open discussion. Do you know Marmite men? how do you explain their appeal? 

Answers on a postcard to Onyx...

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